TY  - BOOK
AU  - Cloud,Henry
AU  - Townsend,John
TI  - Boundaries at home [two books in one: Boundaries with kids; Boundaries in marriage ]
SN  - 1876825804 (hardcover)
PY  - 2002///
CY  - Sydney
PB  - Strand Publishing
KW  - Discipline of children
KW  - Self-control in children
KW  - Parenting
KW  - Religious aspects
KW  - Christianity
KW  - Marriage
KW  - Married people
KW  - Psychology
KW  - Conduct of life
N1  - This edition issued by special arrangement with Zondervan, Grand Rapids, Michigan, USA.; Reprinted 2003; Originally published separately as 'Boundaries with kids' © Copyright 1998 and 'Boundaries in marriage' © Copyright 1999; Boundaries with kids : when to say yes, when to say no, to help your children gain control of their lives; The future in now -- What does character look like? -- Kids need parents with boundaries -- What will happen if I do this? : the law of sowing and reaping -- Pulling my own wagon : the law of responsibility -- I can't do it all, but I'm not helpless, either : the law of power -- I'm not the only one who matters : the law of respect -- Life beyond "because I'm the mommy" : the law of motivation -- Pain can be a gift : the law of evaluation -- Tantrums needn't be forever : the law of proactivity --
I am happier when I am thankful : the law of envy -- Jump-starting my engine : the law of activity -- Honesty is the best policy : the law of exposure -- Rolling up your sleeves : the six steps to implementing boundaries with your kid; Boundaries in marriage; A tale of two couples. Part 1. Understanding boundaries. What's a boundary, anyway? -- Applying the ten laws of boundaries to marriage -- Setting boundaries with yourself : becoming more lovable -- Part 2. Building boundaries in marriage. It takes two to make one -- What you value is what you'll have -- Value one : love of God -- Value two : love of your spouse -- Value three : Honesty -- Value four : Faithfulness -- Value five : Compassion and forgiveness -- Value six : Holiness --
Part 3. Resolving conflict in marriage. Three's a crowd : protecting your marriage from intruders -- Six kinds of conflict -- Resolving conflict with a boundary-loving spouse -- Resolving conflict with a boundary-resistant spouse -- Part 4. Misunderstanding boundaries in marriage. Avoiding the misuse of boundaries in marriage. Conclusion
N2  - BOUNDARIES WITH KIDS is a gold mine of practical information on raising responsible, self-controlled and emotionally healthy children. It's for parents with children of any age and will teach you how to: recognise the boundary issues underlying behaviour problems; set up boundaries and consequences; get out of the "nagging trap"; help kids take responsibility for their actions, attidudes and emotions; teach kids valuable skills for adult life; bring control to an out of control family.--Back cover; BOUNDARIES IN MARRIAGE is essential if you want a flourishing and intimate marriage. You will learn about: establishing personal boundaries; respecting one another's needs, choices and freedom; healthy communication; working through conflict and solving problems; protecting your marriage from intruders, like in-laws; working with a spouse who does not value boundaries.--Back cover
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